Wednesday, September 10, 2014

THE DYNAMIC DUOS

I am in the black (as you still generally find me today,
 some things never change)
 Nancy Kelly is to my Right
in her glamorous attire.
Just Beautiful she will always be to me.
Right now, right this moment; clear your mind of all except for this. Friendship. Allow yourself to reflect on your life from your first remembrance to this very second. I did this. It was a beautiful journey from right before Kindergarten my very first best friend, Nancy Kelly. From there a beautiful tribute of all of these well wishers who have intricately and precisely shaped me just by being in my life and accepting me. Wooing me to find Clarity on my journey. I am indebted to so many people over my lifetime and my story wouldn't be the same without these unvarying confidants. The depths of each of these allies differed immensely. Looking back, I ponder over the phenomenon of if the depths  were predetermined; as if the hand of destiny had eminently illustrated and the notes and tunes to perfectly harmonize my life's story of this unchained melody sensation.  See I do not believe that people are brought across your path will no real purpose intended. My Mother raised me to be acutely aware that it is demanded with my entire being to reach out with the core of my fibers with the outstretched arm and heart wide open to strangers for we do not know when we have entertained angels unaware. I do not see it as an aimless jaunt through life. Although many portray it as such I would be hollow if it weren't for all of the characters that have inspired me to burrow to the marrow of my Existence. When I have need for buoyancy,  I am overwhelmed with the manifestation of that friend that knew the apt response as if their words were as choice apples upon silver and in that moment transcends my stability. 

I cannot recall of a Disney Movie that there was not a poignant friendship portrayed. Sometimes, if not most times, the most extreme of two as in the Odd Couple with Felix Unger and Oscar Madison  were bonded with cords that could never be broken. Amidst all of the Fairy Tale story being unveiled you walked away with the intense longing to have that "Donkey" that Shrek grew inseparable with; in your own life too.  That moment that the air is so intoxicating by the illuminating realization that this friend was now a comrade. They purged deeper and wiggled through the fibers of your outer shell and now resided within your most inner walls of your being. They were now a force to be reckoned with for they see the raw, intricate unscripted you that is as big as the Wizard of Oz. We (ok maybe the younger generation) but again I say We, strive to have as many Facebook, Twitter and Instagram Friends as we can in life. As this is good and enriching for our lives, do you have those friends that Jim Morrison spoke of when he said, "A friend is someone who gives you total freedom to be yourself." And are we allowing ourselves to be available to another(s). I mean, isn't there a difference in Friendship and Comrade? Heart and Soul of why I think or do as I do. Allow me to share some of my most treasured quips from the sweetest Winnie The Pooh. "If you live to be a hundred, then I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so that I will never have to live without you." “We'll be Friends Forever, won't we, Pooh?' asked Piglet. "Even longer,' Pooh answered.” “You can't stay in your corner of the Forest waiting for others to come to you. You have to go to them sometimes.” This one is hanging in my daughter's "party playroom" "A good friend will stick with you until you are unstuck." I finish with my most favorite from Winnie The Pooh, “Piglet sidled up to Pooh from behind. "Pooh?" he whispered."Yes, Piglet?" "Nothing," said Piglet, taking Pooh's hand. "I just wanted to be sure of you.” That comrade will  know what I will do before I do or know the meaning of why I respond or behave as I do.  How Incredibly, Undeniably, Irreplaceable is that?! What an Incredible Wonderment of Life!!

http://www.vevo.com/watch/corinne-bailey-rae/Put-Your-Records-On/GB0400600001

So, go ahead and let your hair down. I want you to find yourself somewhere, somehow. Put on your  record. Tell me your favorite song. I hope you get your dreams. Isn't that what we experience with those closest to us? You will find with a comrade, without effort  your deepest thoughts and desires are revealed and you are now engaged in battle with the heroic fortitude that nothing will stop you until you reach that fortress. I know this song choice may have surprised you however it ignites me, it has me dancing to my groove that only I understand. Its obtaining more than the pleasantries exchanged with your common friends and inside that secret door of your heart,  the vail of vulnerability is now lifted, the baring of your soul, no faint in heart will ever tread; meaning not all friends are called to this task for you, only the ones who have that intuitive knowledge, reside. That no matter what Life may ever send your way through the thickest and thinnest of circumstances, you will be like Dorothy, who joined alliances with the Scarecrow, the Lion and the Tin Man, together on your journey will obtain your driven desires. Hannah had written on a chalkboard in her apartment with a verse I love. It was simply written with the Two crossed off and replaced with a five, (because there are five of them that live together) are better together than alone, because they have a good return for their work. I add my own flair here but it continues, if one falls down,(spiritually, physically or mentally) the other will pick them up. Ecclesiastes 4:9  "A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere. Before him I may think aloud. I am arrived at last in the presence of a man so real and equal, that I may drop even those undermost garments of dissimulation, courtesy, and second thought, which men never put off, and may deal with him with the simplicity and wholeness with which one chemical atom meets another." ~Ralph Waldo Emerson That is my desire to all I come in contact with. My aim in posting is that we find what moves us and inspires us to be Uniquely "You." One of The Greatest Creations in The Wonderment Of Life is each of us. We all individually as collectively hold the necessary ingredients in Making us Superb. Be driven. Lose yourself in the Confidence of your Passions and your Friends who are there for you and with you. Here is Lucy and Ethel portraying this in it's truest form. Most of the time Ethel knew she didn't need to be involved, however, Lucy's Passion and Force of Conviction to Conquer those desires drew Ethel to be inspired  by her. May we live life this same way....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GGh04BFv61o



An incredibly Huge Thank you to my "Ethel's" out there who believe in me even when I am doubtful. To those who desire to see me let my hair down and desire to hear my favorite song. I am eternally grateful as with Piglet and Pooh and cannot wait to see where this life takes us next as we travel the Yellow Brick Road. For those of you who do not have an "Ethel," my desire is that you begin to exude the passion within you, to be Lucy and capture that moment.  We are on the Journey of the Incredible Wonderments of Life and it is to be shared and savored with one another...

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